Leading Intentional Small Groups
Three Strategies to Support Discussions
Our marriage small group is one of the biggest blessings at our church. One reason it has such a strong impact on us is our intentionality. As a leader, here are three simple ways I try to support meaningful discussions:
Come with one clear topic. Sometimes there are multiple parts to a discussion question, but everything flows from a central theme. For example, our topic today focused on our parents, with the question: What patterns from your parents have been passed down to you, and are they helpful or hurtful in your marriage today?
Give space, but guide the group. I ask whether people would like more time with the discussion question or if they’re ready to move on to prayer requests. This helps move the group along without feeling pushy.
Model openness first. I typically answer the discussion question first, as openly and honestly as possible. This provides an example for others and sets the tone for the rest of the sharing.
Healthy discussions don’t happen by accident. My hope is that our group continues to grow not just in conversation, but in Christ-centered love for one another.
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